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Fall In Love With Money: The Key To Overcoming Financial Anxiety

Fall In Love With Money: The Key To Overcoming Financial Anxiety

Afraid of spending money? Suffering from financial anxiety? Are you ready to feel financially secure but just not sure what the future looks like?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you're not alone. Many people struggle with things like money anxiety, worrying about their financial future, and feeling trapped by their current financial situation.

Sometimes our expectations about money can get in our way, making us anxious and fearful when it comes to spending or planning for the future.

But here's the good news! There are steps you can take to transform your money anxiety into real excitement and move toward a brighter financial future.

So if you're feeling anxiety, guilt, or fear around money, here are some tips to help you overcome these negative emotions and start living a more positive, financially secure life:

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Start by recognizing your money triggers.

What situations or experiences make you feel anxious about your finances? Is it the temptation to buy something new that catches your eye when you're out shopping? Is it the pressure to keep up with your friends when it comes to material possessions? Or is it simply not knowing where your next paycheck is coming from?

Money triggers are extremely important to identify because it helps you recognize when you're feeling anxious or threatened around money – so even consider how your body reacts when the topic of money comes up. Recognizing and acknowledging your triggers will also help you start to shift your perspective on spending and allow yourself to feel excited instead of fearful about the future. And once you've identified your triggers...

Start working on changing your mindset around money.

A scarcity mindset can prevent you from taking positive steps toward improving your financial situation. Instead, try shifting your focus to the things you DO have and be grateful for those things that money can't buy - like your health, family, and loved ones. Embracing the abundance that exists in your life right now can help you condition your mind to feel content and at ease with your current financial situation (no matter what) – an important step on the path toward financial freedom.

And instead of feeling anxious about how much money you have or don't have...

Focus on what you CAN do with the resources you currently have.

Rather than worrying about what your financial situation will be in the future, take steps now to improve it. Whether that means finding ways to make extra money on the side, setting a budget and sticking to it, or learning new skills that can help you land a better-paying job, taking action is key. Even simply learning about money and money management is something that can be done that doesn't cost much and is perhaps the best way to start feeling in control of your financial situation.

Take an honest look at your finances.

This may involve tracking where all of your money is going and taking stock of your current financial situation. This could also mean creating a system for managing your different accounts to make sure you're organized. Being honest with yourself and then coming up with a system that works best for you can help you feel more in control of your money and start to build the foundation toward a brighter financial future.

Set clear, obtainable goals for yourself when it comes to your finances.

Whether it's saving up for a new car, planning for a vacation, or investing in your retirement, having a clear picture of where you want to be will help keep your anxiety at bay. Getting clear on what you want will help you focus on the steps you need to take to achieve those goals, thus making it easier to stay motivated and move forward with confidence. Small steps still step forward, so even if you don't have all of the funds you need to achieve your goal right now, remember that every step you take will help get you one step closer.

Don't be afraid to seek out guidance and support from others if you need it.

Whether this means talking to a friend or family member about your finances, getting professional help from a financial advisor, or joining a money management group online, having an outside perspective can be incredibly helpful when it comes to overcoming money anxiety. It's also a reminder that we're not alone in our struggles and that there are thousands of others who are dealing with similar issues.

Work on re-writing your money story.

The narrative we tend to create – whether it's from childhood, our current socioeconomic circumstances, or simply the media – can often result in negative beliefs about money. But you have the power to change this narrative and write a new story that empowers you and gives you hope for your financial future. Nothing is holding you to your past money stories other than your mind – so start practicing positive thoughts, affirming yourself, and envisioning the life you want, and watch as your money anxiety gradually transforms into excitement!

Make money your friend.

At the end of the day, money is simply a tool to help you live your best life. So instead of feeling anxious or guilty about spending it, try approaching money as just another part of your life – something that can be fun and empowering, rather than scary and stressful. Techniques like meditation, visualization, and using empowering affirmations can help you reframe your relationship with money and turn it into a positive one.

Go ahead and try for yourself by repeating the following money affirmations:

"I am in control of my financial destiny, and I use money to create abundance in all areas of my life."


"I am open to receiving and I embrace money with joy and excitement. I know that money is an unlimited source of abundance."

Do you see how good that feels?

You see, transforming your money anxiety doesn't have to be a daunting task. With the right mindset and tools, you CAN overcome money anxiety – and start living a happier, more positive financial life! And with these simple tweaks, you'll soon be on your way to transforming your money anxiety into money excitement! And to help further fuel that excitement, I do have one more thing to help awaken the human money magnet within you. So if you go here now, you can download our special Money Magnet Meditation – absolutely free! Because in it, you'll experience a powerful, fully guided meditation audio designed to prime your subconscious mind for greater wealth and success! Think of it as your perfect companion to help continue to grow your money excitement – and guide you even closer towards transforming your financial life, once and for all. Go here to download your FREE meditation.

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Natalie Ledwell is a best selling author, speaker and successful entrepreneur. She's passionate about helping others to achieve their greatest dreams and ambitions through her personal development programs and her online TV show, The Inspiration Show.

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